Could something as simple as sharing family stories around the dinner table or while on vacation significantly and positively impact your kids?
I explored this idea in my last blog, which looked at the power that sharing the family’s narrative can have on your children.
I cited a study conducted by Dr. Duke and Dr. Fivush. This team developed the “Do You Know” scale – a series of twenty questions designed to measure how much family history a child knew. Children who scored higher on the “Do You Know” scale exhibited a host of positive benefits including higher self-esteem and lower levels of anxiety.
So, what twenty questions did Dr. Duke and Dr. Fivush ask the kids? How can you test your kid’s knowledge of the family history?
The “Do You Know” Scale
Score: Total number answered Y. [1]
Interestingly enough, how accurate the children are in retelling the story isn’t crucial. The key is that each questions tests your child’s knowledge of matters they could not have learned firsthand. In other words, they had to have been told the story to know the story.
So how did you do? How about your kids? I encourage you to take time this week to tell one or two of the above stories or come up with your own. You never know where the conversation may take you!
I scored sixteen out of twenty. I need to go ask my parents about their first jobs!
Source
[1]. https://www.huffpost.com/entry/the-stories-that-bind-us_b_2918975